Romance in the marriage

So ,  I am no great expert at marriage. Just been married for over a year  now. But have my own take on marriage :)But I pose this question to the newly.married (love and arranged) and the veterans who have completed so many years of their marriage "Is the ROMANCE still alive" I do not know whether it is the fact that the two people in a marriage know each other too w well that they rake it for granted that they so not need to special things for them cos they know you will love them. I see so many couples around me who have been die hard romantics before they got married and all of a sudden it vanishes in thin air. Well by  romance I don't mean you have to write poetry for him/her but just make sure you make him/her feel special be it in your words or action. I thinks a simple honest  kiss or the 3 magical  words can do the trick. But yeah.. where we have the tine or you can say we love them.. its all in the heart..Well I say if its in the heart show it!! Simple gestures can create wonders. You never know your partner may be yearning to hear it from you but may not bring it up because it may hurt to you. So give it some thought and the next time pleasantly surprise them...

Ps: please.leave your comments below. Would love to hear your take on it.. byr f9r now.. ciao :)

Late Nights

Late nights

Looking at the heading it would look like i am writing about cool parties or may be just the woes of being new mum. But no here I am referring to another late nights  because of the industry we choose to work. We let our ambitions cloud our judgments about what we can do and what we cannot. I chose to work in the aviation industry because to me it was a very glamorous and very happening industry.  Little did I know what was in store for me. The late nights were fun in the beginning. But as time went by it started  taking a toll on me . For one my monthly roster kept changing and because of that I could not adjust my sleep pattern. I have come to a point where it almost looks impossible for me to slep at nights.  I get sleep typically at the end of my shift timing.  And thus has started to frustrate me to a great extent . So to all the people ,the next time you travel and see a ground staff and you say to yourself "aaw I wish I could work here" think twice its not as glamorous as it seems. It comes with a big price!!!